
Build presets for deep work, meetings, transit, family, sleep, and recovery. Choose allowed people and necessary apps only. Hide all other home screens. When the mode turns on, your phone should look and feel like the environment you want to inhabit.

Let calendars, geofences, and device states do the switching. Start Work Focus when a meeting begins, enable Driving when Bluetooth connects to the car, and cue Wind Down near bedtime. Automation preserves willpower for creating, not for toggling settings repeatedly.

Allow urgent calls from favorites, enable repeated call bypasses, and configure Focus Status so contacts know when you will respond. Add a simple override, like a code word or timer, for rare emergencies. Safety earns trust for stronger daily boundaries.






Walk through each app’s settings for fifteen minutes and disable anything not tied to people you serve or responsibilities you hold. Email, shopping, and social can move to digest. Instant peace and reliability return when you decide what gets through.
Replace push with intentional check‑ins. Remove badges, hide dock icons that nag, and schedule short windows to pull updates on your terms. You feel more in control, and urgent items stand out precisely because the rest stays thoughtfully quiet.
Look at pickups before 9 a.m., notifications during meetings, and past‑bedtime usage. Tie patterns to lived experience. If mornings feel scattered, tighten Work Focus and move messages. If evenings feel wired, deepen Wind Down and adjust autoplay settings.
Each Friday, clear badges, archive lingering notifications, and tidy home screens. Update limits for the coming week and schedule Focus automations for key events. Ten mindful minutes protect dozens of hours, and the ritual signals closure and renewal.
Post your setup screenshots, wins, and questions in the comments. Invite a partner or teammate to try one change with you. Shared experiments boost consistency, surface creative ideas, and make the journey feel connected rather than solitary or moralistic.